Why Narcissists Ruin the Holidays

Kitanya Harrison
2 min readNov 19, 2022
Photo by Element5 Digital on Unsplash

We’re getting into holiday season. This is the danger zone if there is or was a narcissist in your life. They go off the rails at this time of year. I think there are a few reasons. Narcissists guard access to their targets jealously and try to prevent them from having contact with people the narcissist can’t influence or control. That control erodes over the holidays. Other people the target cares about cycle back into their…

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Kitanya Harrison

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